任贤齐 - 心太软 (Richie Jen - Too softhearted)



作词 (Lyrics): 小虫
作曲 (Composer): 小虫

你总是心太软 心太软 独自一个人流泪到天亮
nǐ zǒng shì xīn tài ruǎn xīn tài ruǎn dú zì yī gè rén liú lèi dào tiān liàng
You always have a heart too soft, heart too soft, crying alone until dawn

你无怨无悔 的爱着那个人 我知道你根本没那么坚强
nǐ wú yuàn wú huǐ de ài zhe nà gè rén wǒ zhī dào nǐ gēn běn méi nà me jiān qiáng
You love that person without regrets, I know you’re not that strong

你总是心太软 心太软 把所有问题 都自己扛
nǐ zǒng shì xīn tài ruǎn xīn tài ruǎn bǎ suǒ yǒu wèn tí dōu zì jǐ káng
You always have a heart too soft, heart too soft, carrying all problems yourself

相爱总是简单 相处太难 不是你的 就别再勉强
xiāng ài zǒng shì jiǎn dān xiāng chǔ tài nán bù shì nǐ de jiù bié zài miǎn qiǎng
Being in love is always simple, getting along is too hard, if it’s not yours, don’t force it

夜深了你还不想睡 你还在想着他吗
yè shēn le nǐ hái bù xiǎng shuì nǐ hái zài xiǎng zhe tā ma
It’s late at night and you still don’t want to sleep, are you still thinking about him?

你这样痴情到底累不累 明知他不会回来安慰
nǐ zhè yàng chī qíng dào dǐ lèi bù lèi míng zhī tā bù huì huí lái ān wèi
Is your infatuation exhausting? Knowing that he won’t come back to comfort you

只不过想好好爱一个人 可惜他无法给你满分
zhǐ bù guò xiǎng hǎo hǎo ài yī gè rén kě xī tā wú fǎ gěi nǐ mǎn fēn
You just want to love someone properly, but unfortunately, he can’t give you a perfect score

多余的牺牲 他不懂心疼 你应该不会只想做个好人
duō yú de xī shēng tā bù dǒng xīn téng nǐ yīng gāi bù huì zhǐ xiǎng zuò gè hǎo rén
Extra sacrifices, he doesn’t understand the pain, you shouldn’t just want to be a good person

喔～算了吧 就这样忘了吧 该放就放 再想也没有用
ō~ suàn le ba jiù zhè yàng wàng le ba gāi fàng jiù fàng zài xiǎng yě méi yǒu yòng
Oh~ forget it, just forget it this way, let go if you should, thinking more won’t help

傻傻 等待 他也不会回来 你总该为自己想想未来
shǎ shǎ děng dài tā yě bù huì huí lái nǐ zǒng gāi wèi zì jǐ xiǎng xiǎng wèi lái
Foolishly waiting, he won’t come back, you should think about your own future

你总是心太软 心太软 独自一个人流泪到天亮
nǐ zǒng shì xīn tài ruǎn xīn tài ruǎn dú zì yī gè rén liú lèi dào tiān liàng
You always have a heart too soft, heart too soft, crying alone until dawn

你无怨无悔 的爱着那个人 我知道你根本没那么坚强
nǐ wú yuàn wú huǐ de ài zhe nà gè rén wǒ zhī dào nǐ gēn běn méi nà me jiān qiáng
You love that person without regrets, I know you’re not that strong

你总是心太软 心太软 把所有问题 都自己扛
nǐ zǒng shì xīn tài ruǎn xīn tài ruǎn bǎ suǒ yǒu wèn tí dōu zì jǐ káng
You always have a heart too soft, heart too soft, carrying all problems yourself

相爱总是简单 相处太难 不是你的 就别再勉强
xiāng ài zǒng shì jiǎn dān xiāng chǔ tài nán bù shì nǐ de jiù bié zài miǎn qiǎng
Being in love is always simple, getting along is too hard, if it’s not yours, don’t force it

夜深了你还不想睡 你还在想着他吗
yè shēn le nǐ hái bù xiǎng shuì nǐ hái zài xiǎng zhe tā ma
It’s late at night and you still don’t want to sleep, are you still thinking about him?

你这样痴情到底累不累 明知他不会回来安慰
nǐ zhè yàng chī qíng dào dǐ lèi bù lèi míng zhī tā bù huì huí lái ān wèi
Is your infatuation exhausting? Knowing that he won’t come back to comfort you

只不过想好好爱一个人 可惜他无法给你满分
zhǐ bù guò xiǎng hǎo hǎo ài yī gè rén kě xī tā wú fǎ gěi nǐ mǎn fēn
You just want to love someone properly, but unfortunately, he can’t give you a perfect score

多余的牺牲 他不懂心疼 你应该不会只想做个好人
duō yú de xī shēng tā bù dǒng xīn téng nǐ yīng gāi bù huì zhǐ xiǎng zuò gè hǎo rén
Extra sacrifices, he doesn’t understand the pain, you shouldn’t just want to be a good person

喔～算了吧 就这样忘了吧 该放就放 再想也没有用
ō~ suàn le ba jiù zhè yàng wàng le ba gāi fàng jiù fàng zài xiǎng yě méi yǒu yòng
Oh~ forget it, just forget it this way, let go if you should, thinking more won’t help

傻傻 等待 他也不会回来 你总该为自己想想未来
shǎ shǎ děng dài tā yě bù huì huí lái nǐ zǒng gāi wèi zì jǐ xiǎng xiǎng wèi lái
Foolishly waiting, he won’t come back, you should think about your own future

你总是心太软 心太软 独自一个人流泪到天亮
nǐ zǒng shì xīn tài ruǎn xīn tài ruǎn dú zì yī gè rén liú lèi dào tiān liàng
You always have a heart too soft, heart too soft, crying alone until dawn

你无怨无悔 的爱着那个人 我知道你根本没那么坚强
nǐ wú yuàn wú huǐ de ài zhe nà gè rén wǒ zhī dào nǐ gēn běn méi nà me jiān qiáng
You love that person without regrets, I know you’re not that strong

你总是心太软 心太软 把所有问题 都自己扛
nǐ zǒng shì xīn tài ruǎn xīn tài ruǎn bǎ suǒ yǒu wèn tí dōu zì jǐ káng
You always have a heart too soft, heart too soft, carrying all problems yourself

相爱总是简单 相处太难 不是你的 就别再勉强
xiāng ài zǒng shì jiǎn dān xiāng chǔ tài nán bù shì nǐ de jiù bié zài miǎn qiǎng
Being in love is always simple, getting along is too hard, if it’s not yours, don’t force it

不是你的 就别再勉强
bù shì nǐ de jiù bié zài miǎn qiǎng
If it’s not yours, don’t force it

不是你的 就别再勉强
bù shì nǐ de jiù bié zài miǎn qiǎng
If it’s not yours, don’t force it

不是你的 就别再勉强
bù shì nǐ de jiù bié zài miǎn qiǎng
If it’s not yours, don’t force it

Song Interpretation

Short Summary

The song "心太软" (Too Softhearted) by 任贤齐 (Richie Jen) expresses the emotional turmoil of someone who has a soft and giving heart, always loving and waiting for a person who may never return. The lyrics reflect the struggle of unrequited love and the need to let go for self-preservation.

Detailed Insights

The protagonist of the song experiences deep emotional vulnerability, constantly giving love without expecting anything in return. The recurring theme of being "too softhearted" highlights the pain of carrying emotional burdens alone. Despite knowing that the person they love will never come back, they continue to hold onto hope, which ultimately becomes exhausting. The lyrics urge the person to let go and stop forcing a relationship that isn't meant to be, stressing that true love should not come with unnecessary sacrifices.

The line "如果不是你的，就别再勉强" (If it’s not yours, don’t force it) emphasizes the idea of releasing something that isn't right for you and taking care of one's own emotional health. The song portrays both the tenderness and the suffering of someone who has too much heart and not enough emotional boundaries. It's a call for self-realization and strength in moving on from a love that no longer serves them.