张学友 & 梅艳芳 - 相爱很难 (Jacky Cheung & Anita Mui - Loving is Hard)


作词 (Lyrics):林夕
作曲 (Composer):陈辉阳

最好 有生一日都爱下去
zeoi3 hou2 jau5 saang1 jat1 jat6 dou1 ngoi3 haa6 heoi3
The best is to love for a lifetime

但谁人 能将恋爱当做终生兴趣
daan6 seoi4 jan4 nang4 zoeng3 lyun2 ngoi3 dong1 zou6 zung1 saang1 hing1 ceoi3
But who can treat love as a lifelong interest

生活 其实旨在找到个伴侣
saang1 wut6 kei4 sat6 zi2 zoi6 zaau2 dou3 go3 bun6 leoi5
Life is actually about finding a partner

面对现实 热恋很快变长流细水
min6 deoi3 jin6 sat6 jit6 lyun2 han2 faai3 bin3 coeng4 lau4 sai3 seoi2
Facing reality, passionate love quickly becomes a steady stream

可惜我 不智或侥幸 对火花天生敏感
ho2 sik1 ngo5 bat1 zi3 waak6 hiu1 hang6 deoi3 fo2 faa1 tin1 saang1 man5 gam2
Unfortunately, I'm either unwise or lucky, being naturally sensitive to sparks

不过 两只手拉的太紧
bat1 gwo3 loeng5 zek3 sau2 laai1 dik1 taai3 gan2
But holding hands too tightly

爱到过了界那对爱人 同时亦最易变成一对敌人
ngoi3 dou3 gwo3 liu5 gaai3 naa5 deoi3 ngoi3 jan4 tung4 si4 jik6 zeoi3 ji6 bin3 sing4 jat1 deoi3 dik6 jan4
Lovers who cross the line can easily become enemies

也许相爱很难 就难在其实双方各有各寄望 怎么办
jaa5 heoi2 soeng1 ngoi3 han2 naan4 zau6 naan4 zoi6 kei4 sat6 soeng1 fong1 gok3 jau5 gok3 gei3 mong6 zam2 mo1 baan6
Perhaps loving is hard because both sides have their own expectations, what to do

要单恋都难 受太大的礼会内疚却也无力归还
jiu3 daan1 lyun2 dou1 naan4 sau6 taai3 daai6 dik1 lai5 wui2 noi6 gau3 koek3 jaa5 mou4 lik6 gwai1 waan4
Even unrequited love is hard, feeling guilty for receiving too much but unable to return

也许不爱不难 但如未成佛成仙也会怕爱情前途黯淡
jaa5 heoi2 bat1 ngoi3 bat1 naan4 daan6 jyu4 mei6 sing4 fat6 sing4 sin1 jaa5 wui2 paa3 ngoi3 cing4 cin4 tou4 am2 taam5
Maybe not loving is easy, but without enlightenment, one fears a bleak future for love

爱不爱都难 未快乐先有责任给予对方面露欢颜
ngoi3 bat1 ngoi3 dou1 naan4 mei6 faai3 lok6 sin1 jau5 zaak3 jam6 kap1 jyu5 deoi3 fong1 min6 lou6 fun1 ngaan4
Loving or not loving is hard, not happy yet already responsible for the other's smile

得到浪漫 又要有空间
dak1 dou3 long6 maan6 jau6 jiu3 jau5 hung1 gaan1
To have romance, there must also be space

得到定局 却怕去到终站
dak1 dou3 ding6 guk6 koek3 paa3 heoi3 dou3 zung1 zaam6
To have a conclusion, yet afraid to reach the final stop

然后付出多得到少不介意豁达 又担心有人看不过眼
jin4 hau6 fu6 ceot1 do1 dak1 dou3 siu2 bat1 gaai3 ji3 kut3 daat6 jau6 daam1 sam1 jau5 jan4 hon3 bat1 gwo3 ngaan5
Giving more and receiving less, not minding being open-minded, yet worried about being judged

可惜我 不智或侥幸 对火花天生敏感
ho2 sik1 ngo5 bat1 zi3 waak6 hiu1 hang6 deoi3 fo2 faa1 tin1 saang1 man5 gam2
Unfortunately, I'm either unwise or lucky, being naturally sensitive to sparks

不过 两只手拉的太紧
bat1 gwo3 loeng5 zek3 sau2 laai1 dik1 taai3 gan2
But holding hands too tightly

爱到过了界那对爱人 同时亦最易变成一对敌人
ngoi3 dou3 gwo3 liu5 gaai3 naa5 deoi3 ngoi3 jan4 tung4 si4 jik6 zeoi3 ji6 bin3 sing4 jat1 deoi3 dik6 jan4
Lovers who cross the line can easily become enemies

也许相爱很难 就难在其实双方各有各寄望 怎么办
jaa5 heoi2 soeng1 ngoi3 han2 naan4 zau6 naan4 zoi6 kei4 sat6 soeng1 fong1 gok3 jau5 gok3 gei3 mong6 zam2 mo1 baan6
Perhaps loving is hard because both sides have their own expectations, what to do

要单恋都难 受太大的礼会内疚却也无力归还
jiu3 daan1 lyun2 dou1 naan4 sau6 taai3 daai6 dik1 lai5 wui2 noi6 gau3 koek3 jaa5 mou4 lik6 gwai1 waan4
Even unrequited love is hard, feeling guilty for receiving too much but unable to return

也许不爱不难 但如未成佛成仙也会怕爱情前途黯淡
jaa5 heoi2 bat1 ngoi3 bat1 naan4 daan6 jyu4 mei6 sing4 fat6 sing4 sin1 jaa5 wui2 paa3 ngoi3 cing4 cin4 tou4 am2 taam5
Maybe not loving is easy, but without enlightenment, one fears a bleak future for love

爱不爱都难 未快乐先有责任给予对方面露欢颜
ngoi3 bat1 ngoi3 dou1 naan4 mei6 faai3 lok6 sin1 jau5 zaak3 jam6 kap1 jyu5 deoi3 fong1 min6 lou6 fun1 ngaan4
Loving or not loving is hard, not happy yet already responsible for the other's smile

得到浪漫 又要有空间
dak1 dou3 long6 maan6 jau6 jiu3 jau5 hung1 gaan1
To have romance, there must also be space

得到定局 却怕去到终站
dak1 dou3 ding6 guk6 koek3 paa3 heoi3 dou3 zung1 zaam6
To have a conclusion, yet afraid to reach the final stop

然后付出多得到少不介意豁达 又担心有人看不过眼
jin4 hau6 fu6 ceot1 do1 dak1 dou3 siu2 bat1 gaai3 ji3 kut3 daat6 jau6 daam1 sam1 jau5 jan4 hon3 bat1 gwo3 ngaan5
Giving more and receiving less, not minding being open-minded, yet worried about being judged

无论热恋中失恋中都永远记住第一戒 别要张开双眼
mou4 leon6 jit6 lyun2 zung1 sat1 lyun2 zung1 dou1 wing5 jyun5 gei3 zyu6 dai6 jat1 gaai3 bit6 jiu3 zoeng1 hoi1 soeng1 ngaan5
Whether in passionate love or heartbreak, always remember the first rule: don't open your eyes